You're Special Even Without A Valentine.

February 14th to millions is the day to show your  love and appreciation for your significant other. In my opinion you should show your love and appreciation to the person you love EACH AND EVERYDAY! I don't celebrate Valentine's Day, I think the last time I did I was in High School. I never was a fan of yours it, I always felt that the person that I am with should tell me as well as show me more than just one day out of the year that he love and appreciates me. Some may say it's a day to do more for your significant other but I say do more and show them you love then each and everyday. 

Iam mostly writing this blog for my Confident Dolls that are feeling a little down because they don't have a Valentine. It's ok if you don't have a Valentine tomorrow, you got yourself. Stop thinking you aren't worthy for someone to love you just because you are single on Valentine's Day or any other day. You are worthy, just be patient until the man that is meant for you find you and love and care for you each and everyday. 

Stop beating yourself up thinking that you don't matter because  all your friends will be out enjoying Vday, you will be home alone. Once again it's ok to be alone on Vday, you're special regardless if you have someone or not to spend Vday with. Do you know that you are worth it? You're worth more than just one day, you need someone to show you that you are indeed the queen that you are each and everyday. 

Tomorrow take yourself out on a date, buy yourself a gift and show yourself the love an appreciation that you need and deserve. I say this everyday SELF LOVE IS THE BEST LOVE!!!!! Remember YOU ARE WORTH IT.  If you think that taking yourself out on a date is boring when it's not, cook yourself a nice dinner, pour yourself a nice glass of wine followed by a movie and enjoy your day. 

Stop being sad and stop thinking that you aren't worthy of love when in all reality you're perfect just haven't found the perfect one for you to show you what real love is. Trust me when I say this My Confident Doll, your significant is somewhere praying for you and will make everyday feel Valentine's Day like it's suppose to be. 

 A Confident Love From Me To You

                   Xoxo, Yanika 

Confident In My Lingerie!

Hey Sexy" is what you tell yourself as you look at yourself in the mirror, you take several twirls admiring what you see but a few minutes later you notice what to you is a  flaw. We all have flaws but your flaws are just as beautiful being that it's part of you. For many years I didn't like certain parts of my body and I still struggle at times with completely accepting and loving my stomach but Iam OK with it because it is part of me and hating it will only cause me to hate myself. 

Now with Valentine's Day coming up, you want to wear something daring and sexy for your significant other or even yourself but because of your "flaws", you think wearing something like a Lingerie wouldn't look good on you. Stop putting negative thoughts in your mind and putting yourself down. If you want to wear a sexy lingerie, Guess what? Buy it, Put it on and wear it.  

Stop putting your flaws before yourself! Wear something for your significant other that they would never expect for you to wear, make it a surprise. For once don't think about your weight not being perfect to avoid wearing something flattering, revealing and sexy. Don't give them the usual, panties and a Tshirt. Can someone say? BORING, if you asked me I would really tell you to be naked but I guess you can put something on that would only give them a minute or less to take off. 

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There are so many options for us curvy girls when it comes to lingerie, it's just that some of us are afraid to come out of our shell and be sexy in a way that we would be revealing more than the usual. If you are with someome, why are you afraid to wear lingerie? Why are you afraid to be sexy in front of them? As I always say anyone that you are with/sleeping with you shouldn't be afraid to see how you look naked underneath your clothes. The person that you are with should appreciate and love every part of your body including your rolls and your gut. You shouldn't have to be with someone that you are afraid to be naked in front of. Don't get me wrong, I've been there in the past where I would be afraid to be naked in front of the person that I was with because I didn't love my stomach but now that I have the confidence that I need to be me, Girl watch my rolls and stomach giggle and my MR loves it. Actually he is the one who really took me out of my shell and allowed me to be free in front of him. 

You have to be comfortable and be free with the person you are with.  Ok now back to putting on something sexy for your significant other for Valentines day, like I said be DARING. Give them a show like you never did before, let them want more and a show they will be thinking about for months to come. Put Beyoncé "Dance for you" or even Neyo "Mirror" put on one of those songs you might conceive on. (If you do conceive, I'll send you a BabyShower gift lol) but yes put on a song that you know turns you on to really put on a show for your special someone. 

There are all types of lingerie in every color you desire. Now you don't have to wear your typical lingerie (The silk dress looking type), you can put on some sexy boy shorts/thong with a sexy bra on. You don't have to be ordinary, be extra ordinary. They are many places such as Lane Bryant, Ashley Stewart, Simply Be You, Torrid and many more that sells lingerie for curvy girls. Don't think for a minute that lingerie doesn't come in our size, you're just too afraid to wear it so you haven't noticed. Make it special for Valentines Day, you're special so you deserve to make it magical for the both of you to enjoy. Stop worrying about your weight and what you may consider flaws, you're beautiful. Put that lingerie on, put that music on blast, get some fruits and the whip cream ready and make it happen. Get loose, be confident, be freaky and give him/her a night they will never forget. 

     A Confident Love For Me To You

                   Xoxo, Yanika 

New Month, Same Goals!

Remember the goals you set for yourself before January 1st, remember all of the goals you said you were going to accomplish in 2016. Are you still reaching for them? Are you still focus to accomplish them? Don't tell me you were doing everything you can to make your goals a reality and now that it's already a new month you have given up. 

January is gone and now we have entered a new month but I want you to keep going and not to give up. I know all about setting up goals and after awhile given up but what I've learn is everytime I've given up, I would regret it later on. Do you know what it feels like to give up on your dreams and later realizing if you had stick it out you would of accomplish it by now. Some people think reaching for a goal, take years or it's just too hard to accomplish. Keep in mind that NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE to accomplish. Nothing is too hard, if you keep on going and keep on trying before you know it you will cross off a goal of your list. 

Stop doubting yourself and make all of the goals you said you were going to accomplish, your dream come true. Oh you said you were going to get much healthier, have you been working out? Oh you said you were going back to school, have you been applying to schools? Oh you said you were going to read/write more, have you purchase a book or a notebook? 

Don't talk about it, BE ABOUT IT!!!! Stop telling yourself you are going to do all of these things and then not do then because the only person you are disappointing is YOURSELF!!! Don't give up because it's a new month or you feel you can't do it. Keep going even harder because it's a new month and prove yourself wrong. New Month, SAME GOALS, Matter Even Bigger ones so when 2017 gets here you can be proud of yourself!! 

    A Confident Love From Me To You

                   Xoxo, Yanika