Relationships aren't easy and no one is perfect. You will go through your ups and downs being in a relationship with someone but if you believe in your heart that the person is worth the fight then fight for the love you deserve. At times you will go through situations that you believe won't make things perfect again but when you love each other and want the same thing for each other with each other than things will get back to how it was before.
I must say not all relationships are worth the fight, as a women you should know if it's worth the fight. At times we stay in situations where we know it's not worth it but because of your low self confidence and you think no one else would appreciate and love you the way it's suppose to be, you settle for less than what you deserve. I know I did, it was a waste of time. I knew he wasn't the one for me but I kept telling myself no one would appreciate me for me and I stayed. I knew my worth and I knew I deserved better but I prayed things will get better and it never did so time went on and I wasted YEARS with someone who wasn't even worth the fight.
At the end of the day, you know what you deserve and you know your worth so never settle for less than what you deserve. Always know that you are worthy of being loved by someone that will appreciate the queen that you are. Don't fight for something that isn't reciprocated. The only way a love will be worth fighting for is if you both fight for it. You can't be Holyfield fighting by yourself. That's how I felt, I was fighting for a love that didn't mean anything to him.
You have to know within yourself, if this is worth it. In my current relationship now, we went through our ups and downs and I know we will go through more ups and down in the future but the BS we went through in the past 3 years wasn't worth giving up on us. We both knew that our love for one another wouldn't let it break us apart. I knew in my heart, he was worth the fight and he made believe it was worth it as well. You have to put your happiness first and know that you are worth it. So if you feel that you deserve more than I say fight to do what's best for you.
So many people give up on love so easily, they have an argument and it's a wrap. They don't care anymore just like that but wasn't you just telling them "I love you". Love isn't a game, no one should be playing games when it comes to love. It's either you with it or not but don't waste someone else's time because you feel it's a game. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME OR ANYONE ELSE'S.
We all deserve to love and to be loved, I truly believe there is someone out there for everybody. Don't settle for anyone that isn't making you happy but if that person is making you happy, don't give up if it's worth the fight. Just keep in mine that you are worth the fight but don't fight the battle alone.
A Confident Love From Me To You
Xoxoxo, Yanika
