Settle For Who Appreciates Your WORTH!

Ladies Ladies Ladies You have to know your worth and stop settling for guys that aren't worth it at all. You want to be happy right?! So why settle for someone that makes you cry more than he makes you smile. Oh is it because he has money, a good job, a nice car, his own crib or is it because he know how to make you cum. Seriously?! Why stay with someone you can't see your future with?! All that sh*t he got don't mean nothing if you have to question your worth. Ok he has money so what, be independent and make your own money. He has a nice car, you are capable of getting even a nicer car. He has his own crib, ok work hard to get the keys to your own place. He has a good job, you can have a good job as well if you stop worrying about what job he has. He make you cum like no one else ever did before, trust me you will find someone else that makes you cum even better. Half of these guys we are settling for ONLY have materialistic things to show us that they are a man but what about his values, and his morals. How is he with his family?! How is he with his parents?! Do he believe in marriage and building a future with someone?! Ladies you have to know these things, material things come and goes. But if you are going to  settle with someone you have to know who you settling for on the inside. 

I've settle in the past and when I look back I just realized it was time wasted. I knew these guys weren't worth it but I stayed because I felt no one would want to settle down with me. My insecurities made me feel that way, like who would want to settle with me Iam Fat! I let my weight be the reason why I just settled knowing I deserved better. One of my Ex's I knew he wasn't going to be the one I would want to spend the rest of my life with but I told myself since he is giving me the attention I crave which to be honest it was mostly sex I stayed with him for almost 2 years. I knew I didn't want to have kids with him or get married with him but I still stayed for the late nights and early morning sex sessions. We didn't do much of anything else, I was unhappy but I didn't want to be alone. 

One of the main reasons why we stay in situations is the fear of being single. Iam going to tell you this now if IF YOU AREN'T HAPPY SINGLE, YOU WON'T BE HAPPY TAKEN. HAPPINESS COMES FROM WITHIN, NOT FROM MEN. Happiness starts with you, only you can give yourself the true happiness you need and deserve. It's ok to be single, take that time to reflect on you and take that time to do more of what you love to do. You don't need the company of a man to fulfill your needs. There were times I was single as well, I didn't like it but I took that time to do what I love and hang out with my friends and family. So many females stay in relationships because they are embarrassed of not having a man in front of friends and family. Iam going to tell you right now that friend you trying to empress is probably in a bad relationship herself. NO RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT!!!! but don't settle for a relationship you will never see happiness in. 

LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS FOR ANYONE. If you aren't happy and nothing will ever grow from it then leave and wait till the guy that is meant for you finds you. As woman we have to take a stand and realize we have the power for what we allow and what we won't settle for. Use your power, know that you are worth more than what you believe in, you're beautiful, you matter, you're smart, and you're a Queen that deserves a King that is worth to have you. A man that sees your worth will recognize it without you having to beg him to do so. A man that truly loves you and see you for all your great potentials will do anything necessary to let you know how amazing you are everyday. If he can't acknowledge the presence of you my Queen, leave that man alone.

 Think about your happiness, Think about you and what you deserve. Don't make the mistake of being unhappy My confident Dolls, you're worth it. I know you are, believe that you are and settle down with a man that cherish you and that beautiful smile of yours.  I want happiness for you and I want you to see the same for yourself. Now that Iam with someone Iam not wasting my time with and he sees my worth, I want you to experience the same. KNOW YOUR WORTH, Confidence Is You! 

        Confident Love From Me To You

                      Xoxo, Yanika 

Don't Be Afraid To Be Sexy, Don't Be Afraid To Be Confident, Don't Be Afraid To Be YOU!!!!!

 For many years way before I found my true confidence I hated my body, I was neglected it and I just wish I had hips like Beyoncé and a flat stomach I can show off. I was unhappy with how my stomach looked as will as the rolls on my back. I can tell you for sure now those days are over, yes I still have that stomach I used to hate and those rolls on my back. But I learned to accept, appreciate and love my body. I only have one body with ten fingers and toes, Iam alive and that's what mattered the most.

 My legs that I thought was just too big, I appreciate them now because of them I am able to stand tall and face all of my fears. My arms I used to complain about, I use them to hug the ones I love, I learned to love every inch of my body. Why pretend to be someone else when you can simply be yourself? God designed us to be unique and to be individuals with our own identity but we let the voices of those with narrow minds make us feel different and instead of loving ourselves more, we just wish we can look like Kim Kardashian nice shape with a big butt.  Stop being afraid to be who you want to be, stop thinking of what others may say about you and be yourself. 

 Life is too short to be wondering and stressing about the opinions of what others may have of you. Learn to be yourself, learn to appreciate who you are rolls, stomach and all. I remember when I wouldn't wear nothing that hugged my curves, I was too scared thinking of what others may have to say but now Iam like "Honey Do You See My Curves". I am no longer afraid to flaunt my curves, I love all of me and Iam going to walk everywhere I go with my head up high, my confidence turn all the way up and be the person I am. 

I will no longer allow the opinions and thoughts of someone else define who I am and prevent me to be who I am. When you give someone that much power over you, Guess What?! You are giving them your happiness in the process. You want to wear a dress that show off your curves or some jeans to swing your hips in, WEAR IT!!! You're sexy, you're beautiful and no one can't tell you differently. All the years I spent complaining  and wasn't satisfied with my body have yielded to a new perspective and deep appreciation to the body that brought me thus far. No matter what I will always be in love with who I am and I want you to do the same. DON'T BE AFRAID TO BE YOURSELF! BE CONFIDENT, BE YOU!! 

Details On The Dress Iam Wearing: I Got It From Fashion To Figure. It  Came Out During The Holidays. I Wore To A Wedding On Thursday May 1st. Would You Believe I Got This Dress 24hrs Before The Wedding. Yup!! Just 24hrs Before. I Don't Remember The Original Price But It Was On Clearance For $27.99 Which Was Great. I Got To The Register And  It Was 25% Taken Off The Clearance Price Then It Was A Small Tiny Malfunction To The Dress So They Took An a Additional 10% Which Brought The Dress Down To $20.87. Yup That's What I Paid For It. Can You Say WINNING!!!! My Confident Dolls You Don't Have To Pay A Whole Lot Of Money To Look Sexy, Let Your Confidence Shine Through You. Now That's SEXY. ☺️