You Are Worthy Of Being Happy

We all go through things, none of us are perfect. Emotionally, mentally and physically, we all go through things. On certain situations  that happens in our lives we are responsible for it but in other aspects, we never know what we would be going through would ever happen to us. In life whatever issue you may face, you say a prayer, deal with it and move on with your life. Iam not being harsh but that's the reality of it, no matter what LIFE GOES ON.

I want you to go into 2018 with a clear mind and know that not only are you worth it but anything that you desire in life, you will achieve it. Stop doubting yourself and thinking that you aren’t worthy enough to make things happen. I can admit I had my days where I would go as far as making myself believe that I couldn’t do it but guess what would happen after that?  I would go into a deep depression and believe that I couldn’t make it happen when I COULD. 

                         (Picture Taken BY @oooh_yess on IG)

If you have an idea and you feel in your heart that it is something that you want to do then, GO FOR IT! You might not succeed at the very  first try but eventually you would succeed at it. In order to win, you must fail a few times and that's ok as long as you NEVER GIVE UP. We tend to give up or lose faith in our dreams when things aren't going as plan, keep in mind that nothing in life goes as plan. 5 years ago I planned to be in a mansion with 15 books on the best seller list and living out my dreams. 5 years later, I have none of those things but my dream is still alive. Iam not sad about it because in all honesty I haven't worked my ass hard enough to have those things just YET. I will have them one day but I know that I have to continue working hard and not giving up on my dreams in order to make it to the Best Seller list while Messiah runs around in his mansion. So no matter how hard it may seem or how hard it may get, ALWAYS KEEP ON GOING.

Stop comparing with others and wishing you were where they are at. you can also be where they are if you just believe in yourself a little bit more. You can't wish to be someone else, JUST BE YOURSELF. you can't wish to live out someone else's dream when you have a dream of your own. You can't want the same results as someone else when you haven't worked as hard as they did. Why is is so hard to live your life and just DO YOU? So many of us compare each other on a daily basis with others, I used to do it. I realized that it wasn't worth it and I just needed to be myself and do what's best for me. DO You and DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. 

You need to stop struggling and I don't mean financially because we all go through it with bills, rent etc even with a great job. What I mean with you need to stop struggling is putting yourself last, putting your dreams on hold, not believing in yourself, putting others happiness before yourself. All of those things and that's just a few which will make you struggle with your own happiness. There was a point where I was struggling with my happiness and my worth, I just couldn't get myself together in making myself happy and seeing that I was indeed worthy of being happy. It took some time but now I put myself first, I do what makes me happy, I know that I am worth it, and I know that I have to believe in myself in other to make my dreams to come true. 

You can't keep on struggling by making yourself unhappy, Is it worth it?  Be honest with yourself, is it? IT'S NOT!!!!! You just have to believe and have faith that everything will be just fine because it will. I know it's hard to think things will be just fine but when you hold on to your faith, things will be just fine. Don't settle for less than what you deserve, stop putting your worth to the side because it's available. If it's something that isn't going to make you happy, then leave it right where it is. 

Don't wish that it happens in 2018 for you, MAKE IT HAPPEN. I believe in YOU so believe in YOURSELF. Let go of your fears and self doubt and replace it with self love and ambition. You're worthy in making all of goals and dreams, your reality. 2018 Is your GLOW UP  year and I know the best is yet to come for you. Cheers to YOU!!!

                       

                          A Confident Love For Me To YOU

                                          XoXo, Yanika 

Growth

I have to say this past year have been a year of intense growth for me and it truly led me to the path that I am destined to be on so I can completely be the person that I am meant to be. I know that the instant changed in me and the beginning of my growth began when I found out I was pregnant. I remember telling myself, “ I have to be a better version of myself, Yanika you have to change”. I felt like it’s some battles that I had to overcome in order to be ME and one of them was GROWTH. 

I had to stop being afraid of the “what if’s” and just live everyday how is meant to be. I was fed up of putting others in front of me and satisfying them and forgetting about ME. I was tired of overreacting over things that wasn’t worth it. I knew in my heart for my child, I had to GROW UP! I didn’t have time anymore to play around and putting myself last. Reality set in that I had someone that I had to put before me and that will depend on me for their rest of their lives. 

Now Iam not where I want to be because each and everyday is a new day to become a better version of ourselves but I know for a fact Iam not the same person that I was a year ago. From my temper to my overthinking all changed because it used to effect me in a way that I would react negatively mostly with my mouth or make me overthink to the point I would lose sleep which isn’t worth it at the end of the day. 

I learned to think before I react and ask myself “ Does this situation need a reaction?” And 9 out of 10 Times, It doesn’t. But we are so quick to react that it is after that it happens, we are like “ Shit, it wasn’t that deep” but it’s ok. Now you know next time a situation occurs to THINK BEFORE REACTING. I know some of you are reading this like “Yanika, It’s hard”, trust me I know. I’ve learned that certain situations doesn’t need your energy. Why waste your time and energy on something that isn’t going to do you you no good? I just Let Go & Let God now. 

I remember the days when I used to stress over things and people that now I look back like “ I could of saved a lot of tears” but Iam Thankful that I went though all the bullshit that I went through and  seen people I thought was good for me for who they really are. Each and everyday there is a lesson to be learned, and with that lesson you grow from it. Learn what was shown to you and apply it to your life everyday. Don’t keep repeating the same things over and over again to affect you from growing. 

Growing is part of becoming who you are meant to be which is beautiful. There is nothing wrong with GROWTH, some people are just afraid of it. Growth is a beautiful thing but it will take you out of your comfort zone and make you face things that you thought would never happen. Growth is a powerful drug but the type of drug you need on a daily, Iam addicted to it. I just feel like it’s important for me to keep on Growing for me but most of all, My Son. 

Don’t be afraid of GROWTH, Don’t be afraid of becoming a better version of yourself. Let go of what isn’t meant for you, Let Go Of People Interrupting your greatness and be the person that makes you happy. 2018 is your year, CLAIM IT!! Don’t let your comfort zone stop you from growing. I thank God for many reasons and one of them is allowing me to find myself so I can be the person that I was destined to be. He blessed me with a son that will help me with my growth and not be afraid to accept it. 

You don't necessarily need someone or a reason to grow, plant your seed by any means and blossom into the person that you're meant to be. DO IT FOR YOURSELF. You have to do what's best for you at all times in order to be the best version of yourself to live your best life. The things and people that  tries to break me down now ONLY makes me more powerful, Thank You Growth. 

                         A Confident Love From Me To You

                                       XoXo,Yanika