Settle For Who Appreciates Your WORTH!

Ladies Ladies Ladies You have to know your worth and stop settling for guys that aren't worth it at all. You want to be happy right?! So why settle for someone that makes you cry more than he makes you smile. Oh is it because he has money, a good job, a nice car, his own crib or is it because he know how to make you cum. Seriously?! Why stay with someone you can't see your future with?! All that sh*t he got don't mean nothing if you have to question your worth. Ok he has money so what, be independent and make your own money. He has a nice car, you are capable of getting even a nicer car. He has his own crib, ok work hard to get the keys to your own place. He has a good job, you can have a good job as well if you stop worrying about what job he has. He make you cum like no one else ever did before, trust me you will find someone else that makes you cum even better. Half of these guys we are settling for ONLY have materialistic things to show us that they are a man but what about his values, and his morals. How is he with his family?! How is he with his parents?! Do he believe in marriage and building a future with someone?! Ladies you have to know these things, material things come and goes. But if you are going to  settle with someone you have to know who you settling for on the inside. 

I've settle in the past and when I look back I just realized it was time wasted. I knew these guys weren't worth it but I stayed because I felt no one would want to settle down with me. My insecurities made me feel that way, like who would want to settle with me Iam Fat! I let my weight be the reason why I just settled knowing I deserved better. One of my Ex's I knew he wasn't going to be the one I would want to spend the rest of my life with but I told myself since he is giving me the attention I crave which to be honest it was mostly sex I stayed with him for almost 2 years. I knew I didn't want to have kids with him or get married with him but I still stayed for the late nights and early morning sex sessions. We didn't do much of anything else, I was unhappy but I didn't want to be alone. 

One of the main reasons why we stay in situations is the fear of being single. Iam going to tell you this now if IF YOU AREN'T HAPPY SINGLE, YOU WON'T BE HAPPY TAKEN. HAPPINESS COMES FROM WITHIN, NOT FROM MEN. Happiness starts with you, only you can give yourself the true happiness you need and deserve. It's ok to be single, take that time to reflect on you and take that time to do more of what you love to do. You don't need the company of a man to fulfill your needs. There were times I was single as well, I didn't like it but I took that time to do what I love and hang out with my friends and family. So many females stay in relationships because they are embarrassed of not having a man in front of friends and family. Iam going to tell you right now that friend you trying to empress is probably in a bad relationship herself. NO RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT!!!! but don't settle for a relationship you will never see happiness in. 

LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS FOR ANYONE. If you aren't happy and nothing will ever grow from it then leave and wait till the guy that is meant for you finds you. As woman we have to take a stand and realize we have the power for what we allow and what we won't settle for. Use your power, know that you are worth more than what you believe in, you're beautiful, you matter, you're smart, and you're a Queen that deserves a King that is worth to have you. A man that sees your worth will recognize it without you having to beg him to do so. A man that truly loves you and see you for all your great potentials will do anything necessary to let you know how amazing you are everyday. If he can't acknowledge the presence of you my Queen, leave that man alone.

 Think about your happiness, Think about you and what you deserve. Don't make the mistake of being unhappy My confident Dolls, you're worth it. I know you are, believe that you are and settle down with a man that cherish you and that beautiful smile of yours.  I want happiness for you and I want you to see the same for yourself. Now that Iam with someone Iam not wasting my time with and he sees my worth, I want you to experience the same. KNOW YOUR WORTH, Confidence Is You! 

        Confident Love From Me To You

                      Xoxo, Yanika