Why wait for him to start fore play? Why wait for him to position you in a position for you to feel comfortable in? Ever think to yourself that sometimes he just want you to take control and bring him to ecstasy. What's holding you back? You want it, right? It's 2015 you have to be able to play with your clit in front of him without him helping you out or get on top and ride him like your life depended on it as he stare at your rolls. Don't let your weight come in the way of you having an orgasm My Confident Doll, Be Confident. Be Freaky.
We all love sex, I don't think it's someone on earth that doesn't like to be pleasured. If so, they are missing out big time (IAM NOT JUDGING). Yes some people are freakier than others, some people are just not experience and some people want to get it in but are afraid to. As for me I probably said it before on the blog or on Instagram, I LOVE SEX. I can have sex EVERYDAY. There was a time I wasn't all into sex because truth is I was uncomfortable with who I was. I was letting my weight get in the way of me getting a good nut. The whole time I would be doing it, I would be thinking about him saying things in his head like" her stomach is too big or she got rolls", I was always thinking negatively.
So the more negative I thought of myself, the more I wouldn't give my all. It took years but once I realized that I had to be the freak that I was, now Iam butt naked in 2.5 seconds and what makes things even more special is that I have man that doesn't only make me feel comfortable but he loves every inch of my body.
We all have flaws and we at times let our flaws come in the way of us having fun. Your stomach too big, your thighs are too big, you have rolls, Ok what is the issue? First and foremost why lay with someone that doesn't appreciate you for all of you. Why lay down and have sex with someone who doesn't even appreciate seeing your whole entire body and without only caring of having sex with you. I've been there, you lay with him because he gives you the affection that you are looking for and tells you the things you want to hear but does he really care? Have he ever been out in public with you? Have you met his family? Does he care about your well being and if you had a good day today?
Think about it! A man that truly cares for you and love you for your whole entire being inside and out wouldn't make you feel uncomfortable. Even if you are uncomfortable or you are scared to get intimate with him, he will make you forget about all your fears because he truly cares for you. In the past I would tell "HIM", I don't like having sex without my shirt off, he didn't care enough for me to make me feel comfortable around him. As he is having sex with me, millions of thoughts run through my mind like "he was more interesting in taking my panties off than my shirt". I knew he wasn't the one for me and I should of got up and left but I just laid there as he did what he had to do. I remembered it felt good but when it was all over, I would cry secretly because I knew that's the only time he cared when he was deep inside of me.
I made a promise to myself about 3 years ago, maybe a little bit more that I wouldn't have sex with anyone that I wasn't in a committed relationship with, I kept that promise until I made it exclusive with my love now. I told him and he respected it. Yes, there were many nights I wanted to get on top and give him the best ride of his life but I had to keep my promise. I couldn't continue to give a piece of my worth and diamond to dudes that didn't even care to know how my day was or if I ate dinner that day.
If he is your man and he loves you for you and all of you and he cares about how your day went and is concern about your where abouts etc, Girl put your confidence on and get on top, position yourself to throw that ass back like a quarter back, lay yourself on your side and let him dig deep inside of you. Stop being so afraid of what he may think, he isn't thinking nothing negatively because he loves you and appreciate all of you. Only reason why you think he is thinking negative is because you are thinking negatively about yourself. I learned that when me and my boyfriend first started having sex. I told him " I keep my shirt on" and his response was "Why", I told him I didn't want him to see my body and fast forward to almost 2 years I never repeated those words. That's when I told myself that the only reason why I think they think negatively is because I thought negatively about myself.
If you don't love yourself and appreciate yourself, how can anyone love and appreciate you for all of you. Yes, a man should love and care for you through all your flaws but it's so much that someone can take especially if they do everything in their power to make you feel comfortable not only around them but within yourself. If you love sex and want to do everything your mind and body desire, stop being afraid. Stop worrying and stop thinking so negatively about yourself and get your freak on. Everything that you are worried about such as your rolls, stomach and big thighs will be there after you're done doing what you're done. Why be ashamed of something that is part of you? Your flaws are still beautiful whether what you may think.
He is ready for you and want you to give him all of you, stop by caressing him from his neck to his balls. Kiss him passionately and guide his hand between your legs and help him play with it. Do the unthinkable and be spontaneous, Be Confident and Freaky and don't let your insecurities in the way. As I always say "Under Every Gut Is Some Good Pussy".
A Confident Love From Me To You
Xoxo, Yanika
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