The Power Of Manifestation & Prayer Featuring Tarré Hayes

Do you believe in manifestation? Do you believe in praying for something and for it to actually come true? Well if you don’t, let me be the first to tell you The Power Of prayer and manifestation is REAL. I know at times I doubt myself but there isn’t nothing that I wanted which God didn’t bless me with. It probably wasn’t at the time that I wanted it but eventually he gave it to me when he knew I was ready for it. 

Since last year or so I started to feel stuck at my previous job, I love being an educator but I wanted more. I knew I needed to spread my wings, take a leap of faith and go for a career that was better for me. At times we stay in situations because we are comfortable or we are afraid that it won’t be better. I can admit I stayed at my job and giving myself excuses because I was comfortable, it was security and I felt that I wasn’t capable of finding anything in my field. I prayed but didn’t have faith, I Manifested what I wanted but didn’t do the work. In order to receive what you want, you must do the work. So fast forward to August 1, 2019 after months of making excuses, I got injured at work. At that very moment I knew I needed a change and I knew it was time to take that leap of faith. 

I cried for days, I was going to be out of work for awhile due to my injury but at that very moment is when I got the strength to do the work in finding a new job, It was time. One day my Lil sis Kayla put up a Youtube video of one of her friends in her IG stories and I just clicked on it to see what it was about. It was exactly what I needed to hear in that very moment, not only was the video everything that I needed to hear but it gave me so much hope that I was capable of doing what I needed to do. After watching the video, I wrote down a list of what I wanted  in a new job, I applied to indeed and other job sites, I cried and prayed but my faith was stronger than ever at that very moment. That video really changed my perspective on things and I gave myself 30 days to find a new career. 

I applied to new jobs day and night, went on a few interviews but it wasn’t the right fit for me. I was determined after 3 weeks, I finally went to an interview that I was the perfect fit for me. I left the interview manifesting that it was mines  and a few days later, a day before my 30 day mark....I GOT THE JOB!!!! The power of prayer and manifestation is REAL! So it was only right I connected with Tarré and get to know her and share her story with my Confident Queens. I never knew of her before watching her YouTube video but she changed the narrative of how I viewed thingsand gave me the courage I needed to make a change in my life. Here is her story, I pray that she inspires you as she inspired me. 

• Who is Tarré? I am smart, passionate about my life and eager to unlock all my hidden talents and share them with the world. I am an amazing mother, wife, daughter, and friend. I love hard and I am extremely loyal. I am actually pretty shy around anyone I don’t know, it’s the Cancer in me. 

• What does self care mean to you? What does self love mean to you? What does self care mean to you? Self-care is putting yourself first, paying attention to what you need, and doing something about it. I think as women, especially black women we are taught to put everyone’s needs before our own and we often never go back to address our needs. I believe that you must care for yourself first before you can care for another. What does self love mean to you?  Self-love is how you see yourself. To me self-love is not just about having good self-esteem and loving the exterior, it’s about who you are on the inside, the level of respect you have for yourself, and the energy you give off to others.

• What does growth mean to you? How important is it for someone to accept growth? What would you tell someone afraid to grow? What does growth mean to you? Growth is about looking back on situations that have happened over the course of your life and determining if how you handled it then is the same way you would handle it now. I also think a key part of growth is being open to new experiences that may change you as a person for the better.How important is it for someone to accept growth? I think it’s important to accept growth because life is about evolving and leaving the world better than when you entered it. Change doesn’t happen without growth. Growth doesn’t mean you were wrong in the past, it just means you can have a better outcome because you have more facts and experiences that you didn’t before. Life is too short to be stagnate. What would you tell someone afraid to grow?  I would tell them to stop being afraid it’s okay. Growth doesn’t mean changing the foundation of who you are you are adding layers and depth making you a more well rounded person.

• What advice would you tell someone that is afraid to take a leap of faith? If taking a leap of faith was easy everyone would do it. There will always be a fear of the unknown. I look at leaps of faith how I look at roller coasters. There is always an element of fear, that feeling in the in the pit of your stomach, a level of fear if you will but when the ride is over, you’re happy you did it. You get the rush of knowing you conquered something you were afraid of. That’s what a leap of faith feels like, trust in yourself and know that everything will be okay in the end. Feel the rush!

• The power of prayer and manifestation is real, Why do you believe is real? What does prayer mean to you? What does manifestation mean to you?Why do you believe is real? I believe its real because there is no way I would have accomplished all the things that I have without it. It’s just that simple.What does prayer mean to you? To be honest I am not the most spiritual person. However, I think that you have to believe in a higher power that is ultimately guiding you. I came to the realization that the good and bad things that have happened to me weren’t solely a result of my individual actions maybe two years ago. Having faith in God, while maybe not as strong as others I know that it’s not all just me making things happen. There have been plenty of times that I know God has slowed me down and put me in my place, in those times I wasn’t grateful for all the great things I had. I was so focused on trying to get more when I should have appreciated and been thankful for what I did have. When I took the time to truly be grateful, the blessings continued. I don’t think you have to do a formal prayer in order for things to happen for you, but you do need to understand it’s not all you and stop to say thank you.

What does manifestation mean to you? I am a big believer in speaking things into existence. Everything I have ever wanted to do I said it out loud, but most importantly I had a plan behind it. I think that’s the key to manifestation you have to have a plan. It doesn’t have to be extremely detailed, but you should have enough to at least get you going. 

• How do you find balance being a mother, wife and entrepreneur? I am not perfect by any means I struggled to find balance in the beginning mainly because I was trying to give equal attention to every part of my life. I learned that balance is not about equality. It is impossible to split my time equally between my roles of wife, mother, entrepreneur, and woman. Some days or weeks I may only be able to dedicate 25% of my time to personal things, 50% of my time towards business, and splitting the remainder between my home life and that’s okay. It doesn’t mean that my child or husband aren’t important, it means that at that time they didn’t require as much time allowing me to shift that time to others. Balance is about adjustment not equality.

• What would you tell someone trying to find balance on doing it all especially while following their dreams?I would tell them that its impossible to do it all at the same time. I would tell them to take some time and write out what you need to get done either on a notepad or a calendar and be 100% honest about the time you need to do each thing. Allocate the time and get to work, if something unforeseen comes up, adjust. I also would tell anyone trying to find balance, to get help if you can and if you have help already utilize it. My husband helps me so much I could never get everything I need to get done at home if he wasn’t there to assist. Whether it’s giving our daughter a bath and getting her ready for her meals or just taking her for a few hours so I can focus on work, I utilize the help that I have in order to do it all. Doing it all doesn’t mean you do it all on your own. 

• I was so inspired by you after watching your YouTube video “Quitting my job and finding a new one “, what was your purpose in making that video? What did you want someone to gain after watching that video? How did you find the courage to quit your job? And what steps did you take to find a new job fit for you? what was your purpose in making that video? The purpose of the video was to tell me story and to question if they are happy in their careers and encourage them to do something about it.What did you want someone to gain after watching that video? I want everyone who watches the video to know that deserve better from employers and to challenger them to live up to the values they have set in place. I also want every viewer to know that you can quit and not be a failure.How did you find the courage to quit your job? And what steps did you take to find a new job fit for you? I knew I wanted better for myself. I am a hard worker and I go above and beyond in every position I take on. I deserve to be valued and supported by my employer. The company I worked for promoted that they were one of the best places to work and how they valued their employees but after 4 years I didn’t feel that. I needed the support to make me want to continue to go above and beyond. To find a new job I thought long and hard about what I wanted in my next job, I made a list in order of importance. I updated my resume, signed up for LinkedIn Premium and put myself on the market. During my interview process I was honest with potential employers about what I wanted, and I asked critical questions in order to make an informed decision. I wasn’t afraid to decline an offer if I felt like my needs wouldn’t be met. I wasn’t in a rush, I still had a job, so I didn’t have to jump at the first opportunity. 

• What are your goals for the future? What would you want to achieve?In the future I am looking forward to exploring my hidden talents. I want to start multiple businesses geared towards what I like. I want to make a name for myself and I want to continue to help and inspire others. I haven’t quite figured out what I will ultimately do or how long it will take to make my dreams a reality, but I know I have what it takes to succeed…passion, talent, and faith.

• What is one thing you would tell your younger self? I would tell my younger self to stop and enjoy your life. When I was younger, especially in college I was so focused on having a career right after graduation I missed out on a lot of fun times. You only get to be young and care fee once. I would want my younger self to not take herself to seriously, I used to REALLY care what people think. I would want my younger self to know that the things you care about, or think are a big deal actually aren’t and won’t matter down the road. 

• What is next for as told by RE? What do you wish to accomplish with as told by RE?  I have so many more stories to tell. I started this channel to share my life, as new things happen and I learn new lessons I want to share them. I also want my channel to evolve to include some of my guilty pleasures. I really love hair, I like wigs, natural hair, and hair color. I’d like to add this type of content to my channel. I have a lot of ideas and I can’t wait to share them.What do you wish to accomplish with as told by RE?  I really just want my channel to be an extension of me. I have a lot of sides to me and I just want to make content a large variety of people can enjoy and relate to. 

• Confidence Is You Because 

I know exactly who I am and I love it. I accept the flaws and I work hard everyday to be the best version of myself and to encourage others to do the same. 

Believe in yourself, have faith and manifest everything your heart desires, there is nothing impossible to accomplish. You Can do it, you got this. Last year I was telling myself, I wanted to be in a better position in life, I was scared and as soon as I left my fears go and manifested what I wanted, I got what was meant for me. Speak it into existence!!! 

 

Tarré you are an angel on earth and I am beyond grateful that I watched your video that day not expecting it to change my life. I just hit my one month mark at my new job and I love it. It’s everything that I Prayed for and a new career which I will grow, learn and become better. Keep insping, Keep being amazing. I know you have more lives to change and to make an incredible impact for our Queens. Make sure you keep up with Tarré by following her IG @astoldbyre 

      My Confident Love from me to you

                      Xoxo, Yanika