In all reality no love is perfect, every couple goes through the ups and downs. Every couple may love each other but every day isn't perfect. If someone ever tell you their relationship is perfect than someone is doing something they are not suppose to do in the relationship. Ok, maybe not but there is no way a couple can just be perfect. Jay-Z & Beyonce isn't perfect, every couple go through sh*t. They may make it seem like everything is perfect but you never know what goes on behind close doors. Not everything that goes on in your relationship needs to be broadcast on social media or for the world to know.
No relationship I have been in has been perfect, most of them wasn't even close to perfect. The relationship Iam in now have been the closest thing to perfect. We go through sh*t which is normal, we don't argue a lot. We just have little disagreements which is Ok. We are not perfect and we can admit that but we balance each other out which makes us perfect for each other. I always prayed that I would meet someone that can make my love story my own. I've started love stories in the past but not all love stories last forever, I had to end the book on most. My love story now is just the beginning, after 2 years everyday is an adventure. I don't know where it will lead but it's my very own story not co-starring no one else but us.
We all want to be in love and loved, do you think you aren't worthy of love? Do you look at others kind of love and say to yourself you aren't enough or your aren't worth it to find that kind of love? If you're thinking that way, you're already putting negativity towards the love that you are meant to have. I know the feeling, I've been there. Your homegirl is in a relationship, she's happy and all but you're home alone wishing that you was her to experience the kind of love that she is experiencing. BE PATIENT!!!! Stop rushing for love to find you or looking for love. When the time is right and when you least expect it, love will find you.
I believe when you let Love find you, things are even more magical. I know it sucks being lonely but trust me when I tell you it will be worth it when you have it. PRAY!!!!! Stop believing and thinking you aren't worthy of love or to find and create your own kind of love. YOU ARE WORTHY!!!!
Relationship goals that you wish for, trust me you are capable of having them. It's not worth it wishing and being sad/depressed over someone else's relationship. What's the rush? Oh you want to post Bae pictures on social media for the world to see. Why are you rushing? Ask yourself that question. Is the reason why you're rushing worth it? In life nothing that is meant to last forever come easy. Yes I know being in love and loved is one if the most amazing things ever but rushing it always leads to disappointments. I had to learn that, I always wanted to be in a relationship, I think part of me I just wanted someone to call my own since I was very insecure with myself but I learned that when I put myself in situations that are not even my worth it, I always get hurt.
I told myself to be patient and the one that I am suppose to love will come my way. I wasn't looking and I stopped wishing to be in someone else's relationship. It took some time but now look, Iam the happiest that I have ever been.
Don't envy others relationship it want others relationship because you are lonely. Don't make yourself miserable just because you want to love it be loved. Be patient, pray and just wait. Trust me when you have the love you deserve and prayed for, you will be the happiest that you have ever been.
A Confident Love From Me To You.
Xoxo Yanika
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