What are you so scared of? I get it, your thinking to yourself " you're too heavy to sit on his face". Girl, do I have to repeat myself " under every gut there is some good p*ssy". I wrote about this before in previous blogs but I have to say it again. Too many women let their insecurities come in the way of them being satisfied and getting a good nut. Why even sleep with someone that you aren't comfortable with?
Trust me I get it, I've been there. To the point I wouldn't even have sex with my shirt off. I know how you feel, you're probably thinking " if I take my clothes off, will he still like me " or "what if Iam too big for him and he gets turned off". Those same question and more came across my mind millions of times and once I thought of them, I would shut down. I wasn't comfortable with sex until about 2 years ago, I mean butt naked comfortable. I just couldn't do it, my insecurities was getting in the way of me being confident sexually. I love sex and love to be pleasured but those thoughts of my insecurities always crossed my mind.
F#%k your insecurities and be confident and freaky. So what if you have rolls and your stomach is big. Girl you better incorporate them, make your rolls what he holds on to as you throw it back like a quarter back and your stomach as a pillow after you done putting it on him. You want to be satisfied and have a good time, right?! So let go of what I call the devil, seriously cause the only thing insecurities do is make you think negatively about yourself.
It's no reason why you should be scared regardless of your weight. You're making yourself think that something is wrong with you each and every time you let your insecurities take over. Don't let your insecurities win over you being satisfied. It doesn't matter who you're with and how much you weigh, be yourself!!! Let him see all of you, besides a man love when we give them all of us. It kind of turn them off when we don't. So stop being afraid, stop holding back.
I always say this if you're not comfortable being butt naked around him, why even sleep with him? Any man that you can't be yourself around, isn't meant to get to know you that deep. He isn't suppose to know how it feels to be inside of you. Be comfortable enough to be naked in front of him before you open your legs and give him a piece of your treasure.
My confident dolls, don't let your insecurities win, don't let them take over you. Know that you're beautiful, know that you're worth it, you matter. Fuck what anyone has to say, don't let your weight be an issue or get in the way of you being happy. I realized most of my sad days were based on how I felt about myself, scared of what others would say things about me. But each time those little devil insecurities try to pop up in my head, I remind them that " Iam The Sh*t".
You remind yourself daily that you are worth it and you are enough to get your kitty licked without having any insecurities pop up in your mind. If he is someone one that you care for or feeling, put your insecurities away and put that confidence on him or her. ( Confidence Is You Doesn't Discriminate) but yeah put that confidence all the way on them. Stop letting your insecurities come in the way of you being freaky. As I always say BE CONFIDENT, BE FREAKY! Don't let your weight or anything else come in the way of you being satisfied. Know your worth, spread your legs and go to sleep happy.
A Confident Love From Me To You
Xoxo, Yanika
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