Make Him A Better KING For You!

I always hear women saying that they need a man to cater to them and give them everything they want and need. I feel that you don't a man to cater to you or give you everything you want and need because you can do that on your own. But never stop and think maybe a man needs a push from his queen to be better for her, or better yet inspire/motivate him to elevate in life to be who he is destined to be. 

We tend to care for just our feelings and not theirs, I can admit that there were times I wouldn't care about my significant other feelings because in my head it was all about me. But over these past  few months I realized that this is a man I prayed for, this is a man that did everything in his power to heal me so I can love again and iam dismissing his feelings because I didn't get what I want. 

Why does it always have to be about you? Why can't you show him that you appreciate him and everything he does for you? Every man needs affection and love just like we do. Tell him, matter of fact remind him that you love him on a daily basis. Stop treating him as if he isn't who you felled in love with. How can you fall in love with someone and not continue to show them that you appreciate them? I get it, we get comfortable and at times we think to ourselves " well he knows I love him so I don't have to show him". As I said before these past few months showed me that I have to show my significant other  that I love him, care for him, that Iam thankful for him and he is the one I would love to be with for the rest of my life on a daily basis and not only when I want something. 

I can't neglect how I feel or stop showing him how I feel for him. You can't always want your significant other to cater to you as you do nothing to show them that they matter to you. It doesn't have to be every single day but show them in any way that you feel may show them your appreciation towards them. How about you cook for them, make his favorite meal. How about pay for date when you both go out, he doesn't always have to pick up the bill, treat him. Give him a massage, I know after a long hard day at work, he just need some relaxation. Think of ways to show your appreciate to him, make him a better man for you. 

Don't wait for someone to cater to you as you do nothing for them. If he is treating you like the Queen that you are as he should than treat him like the King that he is. I remember listening to this sermon on line by Heather Lindsey and she said " When we are single, we pray to God to send us the perfect gentleman but when he does we do things to push him away and than wonder why they hurt us". And I truly believe this, we hurt own heart at times because we do things to push him away not even realizing it. 

Stop waiting for him to do everything to make you happy when you aren't doing anything to make him happy. Any relationship is 50/50, you both have to show love and appreciation to each other. You can't change anyone. It you can inspire and motivate them to make that change so they could be better for you. Inspire him, love him, cherish him and appreciate him so he can be the man that you deserve and need. Make him a BETTER KING for his QUEEN WHICH IS YOU!!! 

    A Confident Love From Me To You  

                     Xoxo, Yanika