Women Vs Each Other.

Why are women so mean to one another? I asked myself this question on a daily basis. I just don't understand why it is so hard for another women to uplift and inspire another women like her. Is it a crime, if you do? Women would bring another women down just to feel good about themselves instead of bringing them up. We will break each other down from the texture of our hair, to the man that we are with, the job that we have, how much money we have and even our weight. Why? Why must you feel that you're better than the women beside you because you make more money than her? Why do you think you're more beautiful than her because your waistline is smaller than hers? Oh your man is better than hers because he spoils you so that makes you better than her. 

Why are we finding anything and everything to bring another women down? Does it make you feel good? Does it bring you success? Does it bring you closer to God? What does hating and being mean to another do for you? Instead of bringing each other up to do better and for all of us to succeed, we are kicked down by our sisters  so we can fail. The first time I got bullied, I was 7 years old and it was by a girl in my classroom. She bullied me day after day because of my weight. I was 7 YEARS OLD, I didn't why she was being so mean to me because I was chubby. Yes it hurtled my feelings but my mother taught me not to pay her any mind and for me to continue being the smart, beautiful and caring little girl I was. I couldn't pay it no mind but that's the beginning of me losing my confidence. 

For years I would be put down by other girls because of my weight, it didn't matter if I had a good heart and I was a nice person. They saw what to them was a flaw and used it against me to bring me down. As I said before it took me years to say " F%#k it, Iam worth it and I matter" . I refused to let anyone bring me down. I looked up to my grandmother and my mother of course and some of my inspirations such as Maya Angelou, Oprah and Brandy to remind me that I was great and one day I will make a difference in this world. 

I started "Confidnece Is You" to inspire and empower women to be themselves, to know their worth, to love themselves and to go for what they believed in. I didn't start it to compete with anyone or bring anyone down. I started it because I wanted to use my voice with the hopes that someone, anyone around the world would be inspired by me. Years laters, it warms my heart when I receive a message from one of my confident dolls telling me how much I inspired them. It brings me the ultimate joy and inspires me to continue with what Iam doing. 

Don't you know if we all inspired one another, we will all succeed. The power of being a women is special, we have the power to run the world and be great and we can to that together without bringing each other down. We have the same thing between our legs so why hate? I won't lie when I had low self esteem, I used to envy girls with confidence but once I realize that I can be just as confident as them them I realized that I spent my time being envious when I could of just reached within me and pull my confident out. See that's the problem, we hate and envy other females doing it because we feel that we aren't capable of achieving what they have accomplished. 

We can do it all, you just have to believe in yourself and stop doubting yourself. Stop being so hateful and envious of another female not only doing it but PERIOD!!!!! I just want all of us to get along, inspire, motivate and empower each other to do better, be better and become better. Stop bringing other females just like you down to prove a point or make yourself feel better. It's not worth it, next time you want to bring another female down, uplift her instead. Confidence Isn't Just YOU, IT'S US!!!!!! 

     

   A Confident Love From Me To You 

                      Xoxo, Yanika