So last night on Snapchat I made a comment saying " Be more than his girlfriend, be his nurse, his chef, and porn star". I feel that a women should cater their man and let him know that they are willing to do what's necessary to make him happy. Of course you have to do all those things for a man that is treating you like the queen that you are. At times we do things for guys that doesn't even deserve it, oh I know those F%@k boys. But as I always say YOU LIVE AND YOU LEARN!, All men aren't the same and that's where some of us fail to realize. All the other guys I dated in the past isn't even close to being the same as my man now, not even close. If I would of assumed that all men were the same, I would of lost out of the opportunity of having a good man in my life.
Ok back to being more than his girlfriend, Some females feel that they don't have to do it all because that man isn't their husband but if you want him to be your husband, aren't you suppose to do certain things for him to see that you are wife material and you are the one for him. Oh you think your personally and looks are going to make him get you a ring? It's 2015 and these men are getting smarter and are looking for the right women to settle down with not just a quick F#@k. I know what you want, I know that you know your worth and you want someone to love you the way that you are meant to be loved.
So Ok, you're his girlfriend, what do you do besides just be his girlfriend? Do you cook for him when he said that he is hungry? Iam not talking about feeding him your vagina or telling him let's go out to eat. Maybe what he need is a nice home cook meal from his girlfriend. I don't care if you aren't the greatest chef in the world because I know Iam not but I know how to cook certain things to make sure that he never goes hungry. THE WAY TO A MAN HEART IS THROUGH HIS STOMACH, is what I've been hearing since I was a little girl. You have to make sure that you know how to boil eggs if he tells you that he is hungry. Some females are so quick to just say "Let's just order take out or go somewhere to eat". Iam telling you right now, don't do it. You can go online and find easy 123 recipes. Be his chef once and awhile and cook that man a home cook meal.
He tells you that he sick, what do you do? Be his nurse, that's what you do. Make him some tea, rub his back and his feet, make sure he got his medicine, suck his balls if you have to to make him feel better. Don't just ask him, "how do you feel?". Do what is necessary to make him feel better? Just by making him soup, shows him that you care about his well being. Ladies, guys pay attention to Every THING. Don't think to yourself, just because you asked him, "How he is doing" shows that you care. Put on a nurse outfit if you have to and Take care of YOUR man!!!!
Now after being his chef and maybe his nurse, put it on him like you never did before. Every time you F#&k him, make sure that it's better than the last time. Don't get lazy, don't get tired, don't think about your insecurities, just get better and wetter. Make him lose his mind, make him wonder where the hell you got those new tricks from. Don't let anything get in the way of performing your best for you man. Some females feel that because that's their man they don't have to do anything new or just keep doing what they have been doing. You better watch some porn and surprise him from time to time. It's nothing wrong with getting more freakier with YOUR man.
As his girlfriend you have to wear many hats and that's ok because at the end of the day you want to make him happy and satisfy him in any way you can. Be more than his chef, nurse and pork star. Be the one to push him towards greatness, elevate his mind, body and spirit. Be his cheerleader and keep on pushing him to do better. Don't be just his girlfriend, show him that you are indeed his queen, the queen that he would want to spend the rest of his life with.
Take Care Of You Man!!!!!!!!
A Confident Love From Me To You
Xoxo, Yanika
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