Friday, December 29, 2017

You Are Worthy Of Being Happy

We all go through things, none of us are perfect. Emotionally, mentally and physically, we all go through things. On certain situations  that happens in our lives we are responsible for it but in other aspects, we never know what we would be going through would ever happen to us. In life whatever issue you may face, you say a prayer, deal with it and move on with your life. Iam not being harsh but that's the reality of it, no matter what LIFE GOES ON.

I want you to go into 2018 with a clear mind and know that not only are you worth it but anything that you desire in life, you will achieve it. Stop doubting yourself and thinking that you aren’t worthy enough to make things happen. I can admit I had my days where I would go as far as making myself believe that I couldn’t do it but guess what would happen after that?  I would go into a deep depression and believe that I couldn’t make it happen when I COULD. 


                         (Picture Taken BY @oooh_yess on IG)


If you have an idea and you feel in your heart that it is something that you want to do then, GO FOR IT! You might not succeed at the very  first try but eventually you would succeed at it. In order to win, you must fail a few times and that's ok as long as you NEVER GIVE UP. We tend to give up or lose faith in our dreams when things aren't going as plan, keep in mind that nothing in life goes as plan. 5 years ago I planned to be in a mansion with 15 books on the best seller list and living out my dreams. 5 years later, I have none of those things but my dream is still alive. Iam not sad about it because in all honesty I haven't worked my ass hard enough to have those things just YET. I will have them one day but I know that I have to continue working hard and not giving up on my dreams in order to make it to the Best Seller list while Messiah runs around in his mansion. So no matter how hard it may seem or how hard it may get, ALWAYS KEEP ON GOING.


Stop comparing with others and wishing you were where they are at. you can also be where they are if you just believe in yourself a little bit more. You can't wish to be someone else, JUST BE YOURSELF. you can't wish to live out someone else's dream when you have a dream of your own. You can't want the same results as someone else when you haven't worked as hard as they did. Why is is so hard to live your life and just DO YOU? So many of us compare each other on a daily basis with others, I used to do it. I realized that it wasn't worth it and I just needed to be myself and do what's best for me. DO You and DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. 


You need to stop struggling and I don't mean financially because we all go through it with bills, rent etc even with a great job. What I mean with you need to stop struggling is putting yourself last, putting your dreams on hold, not believing in yourself, putting others happiness before yourself. All of those things and that's just a few which will make you struggle with your own happiness. There was a point where I was struggling with my happiness and my worth, I just couldn't get myself together in making myself happy and seeing that I was indeed worthy of being happy. It took some time but now I put myself first, I do what makes me happy, I know that I am worth it, and I know that I have to believe in myself in other to make my dreams to come true. 


You can't keep on struggling by making yourself unhappy, Is it worth it?  Be honest with yourself, is it? IT'S NOT!!!!! You just have to believe and have faith that everything will be just fine because it will. I know it's hard to think things will be just fine but when you hold on to your faith, things will be just fine. Don't settle for less than what you deserve, stop putting your worth to the side because it's available. If it's something that isn't going to make you happy, then leave it right where it is. 

Don't wish that it happens in 2018 for you, MAKE IT HAPPEN. I believe in YOU so believe in YOURSELF. Let go of your fears and self doubt and replace it with self love and ambition. You're worthy in making all of goals and dreams, your reality. 2018 Is your GLOW UP  year and I know the best is yet to come for you. Cheers to YOU!!!

                       
                          A Confident Love For Me To YOU
                                          XoXo, Yanika 



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