Blocked & Sealed

Have you ever had someone in your life that doesn't bring any good to you? Have your mother or father ever tell you that someone isn't good for you? Well we all had someone in our lives that didn't bring good into our lives but we were blinded to it. I look back on my life with NO REGRETS but I do know that I could of saved a lot of tears if i would of just listened to my mother. Now Iam not just talking about having a boyfriend, Iam also talking about friends and family. Usually people think " Oh, she's my friend and she will never hurt me" or " Oh, we are  family, we will always be good". But guess what? SHIT HAPPENS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That friend that you never thought will hurt you, will now you know the real her and that family member that you say will never hurt you because blood is thicker than water, here you are not speaking to them.

I know that you can't put all your trust into someone anymore because things happen and that's just the reality of it. Iam not saying not to trust anyone but you do have to be careful with people around you no matter if they been your friend for 10 plus years or if they are family. I've been hurt by people I trusted my soul with and those individuals are the one that hurt me the most. I just recently started putting myself first and not putting anyone above me besides God and my son. I refuse to get hurt again by someone I love so I don't put my whole entire trust into anyone anymore and I just go with the flow. My guard isn't up and I don't have an icebox in my chest, Iam just cautious with who I allow in my space.

In life you LIVE AND LEARN, everything that we go though is a lesson to be learned but sometimes we don't see it as a lesson. I can think back to years ago having someone that I couldn't live without, she was my friend but everyone around me always told me that she wasn't  good for me and that hanging out with her will block my blessings. I didn't listen because I truly believed she wouldn't hurt me. Our friendship wasn't the same at some point but I kept on forcing it because once again she was my "FRIEND", while all of her blessing came pouring, nothing in my end was working for me. I wasn't working at the time and for the life of me I couldn't get a job, I was miserable but still hanging out with my "friend'. It wasn't until she told me that she hooked her babyfather girlfriend up with a job that I realized that she wasn't my "friend". How can you hook up the girl your man left you for and cursed you out day ad night with a job but not the girl that's been your ride or die since day one with a job?. That truly opened up my eyes and the guy she was dated at the time even told her that she wasn't a true friend for that.


That made me overthink everything about our friendship but yet I couldn't LET IT GO and it wasn't until my birthday that something happened when I realized that she wasn't my friend. I decided at that moment that no matter what I had to let her go even if it hurted me doing so. I stopped talking to her and it wasn't until 2 years later that I heard from her from an unknown number telling me "congratulations on my book and how she brought a copy", I simply wrote back "Thank you" and blocked that number. I was done with her and done with that situation and its crazy to say but once I removed her from my life, blessing just started pouring for me. Sometimes it's the company that you keep that blocks your blessings. Their vibes and energy and whatever else they are wishing on you will make shit not work for you.

You have to pay close attention and stay cautious to who you call a friend, the reality of it is not everyone is your friend and that's OK. At times you think you need someone in your life, when you don't. It took me years to realize this but here I am living my best life without people I thought I couldn't live without. From friends to Ex boyfriends, IAM GREAT!  Iam not writing this blog for you to not trust anyone in your life, Iam writing this blog to share my experience like I always do and for you to just have your eyes open and be cautious of who is around you. Not everyone you keep around you wants good for you and this is why you have to also be careful with who you trust and who you let in your life.

I have so many things going on in my life as I mention before there is only a handful of people I trust with sharing things with. I don't know who is wishing bad on me, maybe no one is but another reality is NOT EVERYONE WANTS TO SEE YOU HAPPY OR TO SEE YOU WIN so therefore I keep my eyes open and remain cautious around everyone around me. Always be true to who you are, don't be afraid to do what makes your happy but always PAY ATTENTION and STAY CAUTIOUS.  You are destined for greatness but it is important for us to surround ourselves with people who deserve to feel our fire. You will be even GREATER if you let go of things and people that doesn't serve you to be the BEST version of yourself or deserve you. Block, Seal, Let Go & Let God 



                                              A Confident Love From ME To YOU
                                                                 Xoxo,Yanika