Love Is YOU!

Do you love yourself? 

Are you truly in love with yourself?

Are you happy? 

Are you satisfied with who you are right now? 

Because I find it that more people are searching for love and happiness in others instead of themselves. I've learn that in order to love someone one else, you must love yourself first. To find time to make someone else happy, you must be happy within yourself. To uplift someone else to do better, you must be content in where you are in life.  Iam not saying you can't love someone  or be the reason why someone is happy but make sure you come first. Why put someone else before your needs and wants?

It took awhile for me to understand that I mattered and I came first. I stayed in a relationship in the past where he came before me to the point I lost myself and didn't know who I was anymore. I wasn't happy but he was, He was good but I wasn't, He was loved by me but I didn't love myself and he didn't even show me that he loved me as well. I completely lost myself and no matter what I stayed knowing I deserved better but the idea of being lonely scared me. So I stayed through all the BS I knew I didn't deserve only because I didn't love myself enough actually more than him to leave.

Eventually I left after YEARS of putting myself last and the day I decieded to leave, I got my power back. I wasn't going to allow anyone to have that much power over me, I put myself first at that very moment. I didn't care if I was going to be single because I knew I was enough and that I was worth it. It took awhile to work on myself and till this day, Iam still a work in progress but Iam not who I was 9 years ago. Iam not afraid of putting myself first and being completely in love with ME. You have to be completely IN LOVE with yourself before you can be in love with someone else.

The reason why when I met MJ, I loved myself but I wasn't completely in love with myself. I was still broken and it took 2 years for me to be healed enough to love him. And I love him beyond words can say because he didn't judge me for being broken, he understood the pain I went through and helped me through my healing process to want to love myself and to be in love with someone else again.  It took awhile and it wasn't easy at all but I am at a point in my life now that I wouldn't trade for the world. Not only do I love myself but I love someone else that is in love with me as well.

Loving Yourself is necessary, Loving Yourself is important and needed as well. You have to learn to love yourself and remain in love with yourself through it all as will as put yourself first. The person that is meant to love you  and for you to love will be for you. So don't rush the process of loving someone else when you aren't even completely in love with yourself. It's not easy, It's a process but it's worth it, LOVE IS YOU!  If you know that no one in this world loves you then you know for sure that you love yourself. You matter, You're worth and You are Magic.  The power of believing that you are will manifest amazing things to come into your life. It's 2019, The year to show the world exactly who we are and we are determined to be. So instead of looking for validation, love and satisfaction in the arms of someone else, make sure you find it within yourself first. 






                                                 A Confident Love From Me To You
                                                             XoXo, Yanika'