A Confident Lingerie!
Valentines Day is approaching and being sexy for him or her, you know Confidence Is You doesn't discriminate is the only way to be. Wear something they would never expect for you to wear, make it a surprise. For once don't think about your weight not being perfect to avoid wearing something flattering, revealing and sexy. Don't give them the usual, panties and a Tshirt. Can someone say? BORING, if you asked me I would really tell you to be naked but I guess you can put something on that would only give them a minute or less to take off.
There are so many options for us curvy girls when it comes to lingerie, it's just that some of us are afraid to come out of our shell and be sexy in a way that we would be revealing more than the usual. If you are with them, why are you afraid to wear lingerie? Why are you afraid to be sexy in front of them? As I always say anyone that you are with/sleeping with you shouldn't be afraid to see how you look naked underneath your clothes. The person that you are with should appreciate and love every part of your body including your rolls and your gut. You shouldn't have to be with someone that you are afraid to be naked in front of. Don't get me wrong, I've been there in the past where I would be afraid to be naked in front of the person that I was with because I didn't love my stomach but now that I have the confidence that I need to be me, Girl watch my rolls and stomach giggle and my MR loves it. Actually he is the one who really took me out of my shell and allowed me to be free in front of him.
You have to be comfortable and be free with the person you are with. Ok now back to putting on something sexy for your significant other for Valentines day, like I said be DARING. Give them a show like you never did before, let them want more and a show they will be thinking about for months to come. Put Beyoncé "Dance for you" or even Neyo "Mirror" put on one of those songs you might conceive on. (If you do conceive, I'll send you a BabyShower gift lol) but yes put on a song that you know turns you on to really put on a show for your special someone.
There are all types of lingerie in every color you desire. Now you don't have to wear your typical lingerie (The silk dress looking type), you can put on some sexy boy shorts/thong with a sexy bra on. You don't have to be ordinary, be extra ordinary. They are many places such as Lane Bryant, Simply Be You, Torrid and many more that sells lingerie for curvy girls. Don't think for a minute that lingerie doesn't come in our size, you're just too afraid to wear it so you haven't noticed.
If you're on a budget because some of these lingerie be a little pricey, be creative. Buy something very sexy that is in your price range as I said before a sexy pair of boy shorts/thong and pair it with a nice sexy bra and get your freak on. Stop being afraid to wear certain thins because of your weight. This person that you are with doesn't love you just because, they love you because they saw how special you are and how beautiful you are inside and out.
I was so afraid of wearing certain things because of my weight, it was ridiculous. I honestly wore my first lingerie last year while being on vacation with my MJ. I wanted to wear something he never saw me in and put on a show for him. I did that! I was nervous at first but then I realized this is the person that I love and he loves me just as much and all of me flaws and all. You have to stop being so afraid to be yourself or wear certain things in front of the person you love. If you can't be yourself around someone you love then maybe that person isn't the one for you. Anyone that you are with have to love and appreciate you as well as make you comfortable around them no matter what.
Make it special for Valentines Day, you're special so you deserve to make it magical for the both of you to enjoy. Stop worrying about your weight and what you may consider flaws, you're beautiful. Put that lingerie on, put that music on blast, get some fruits and the whip cream ready and make it happen. Get loose, be confident, be freaky and give him/her a night they will never forget.
A Confident Love From Me To You.
Xoxo, Yanika
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