Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Focus On Yourself!

At times we let things and even people in the way of the things we need to do and most of all before ourselves. We get so caught up with what's  going on with them or their situation that we lose sight on what matters. What matters the most in life is YOURSELF, some may disagree but to me I feel that YOU come first before anyone else or anything that may be acquiring. 


What is it that you want? What are your goals? What is happiness to you? Where do you see yourself 5 years from now? Are you happy right now? What are some of the changes you wish to see? Take a few minute to ask yourself these few questions and see if you are truly content and satisfied with your life. I know at times I will be so focus on others and situations that won't benefit me that  I lose track on what matters. We all lose track at times but you have to remember that your goals and the things you need to accomplish is what you need to stay on track with. 


Being consistent is hard at times, trust me I know. For example I've been on my healthy eating and exercise journey to better myself and there will be days where Iam doing everything right from eating the right meals and working out every chance I can. I'll be doing great and then I lose track to where Iam writing this blog at 8:15am and haven't eating breakfast yet. At Times You Will Lose Focus But The Beauty Of Having Another Day Is That You Can Focus On It Even More. Just because you lose focus for a day or two doesn't mean that you can not go on and that's the problem for some. Once they lose focus, they feel that they have to start all over again. You don't have to start over, just start off where you left off. 



From working full time, to going to school full time, building a brand and having a social life with only having 24 hours in a day, it's a lot but I know in order for me to succeed I have to find balance and stay consistent with everything that is going on in my life. Yes it will be tough at times but I just say a prayer and keep on pushing. You have to keep on pushing no matter how hard it gets, nothing in life will be easy but if you focus on what matters and most importantly yourself than things will work out for the best. 


Make a plan, write down your goals, do some research and what I mean by that is doing some research on some of the goals you have can help you have a better understanding. At times I will feel  discouraged and get confused at certain things I don't understand and just reading different articles online or listening to different YouTube channels can give me clarity and the information I need. If you not afraid to ask someone for help then do so, don't be afraid to ask anyone for advice. Don't get me wrong there are some people out there that won't give others advice or any type of knowledge but I feel like it's too much power and knowledge in the world for someone to hold on to theirs and not share with others. 


It doesn't matter what you do as long as you do what is necessary for you to stay consistent with yourself and your goals as well as staying focus. Trust me it will get hard at times but it will all be worth it at the end of it all. 

Believe in yourself and always do what's best for you. You have to do what's best for you in order to be truly happy. There is only one version of you so make sure that you smile each and everyday, You Are A Blessing. 

     A Confident Love From Me To You
                      Xoxo Yanika 

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