Be You, Be Confident & Don't Be Afraid To Be Freaky.

I know at times not being in love with your body or not having the confidence you wish for can get in the way of you being sexual or freaky with your partner. Your insecurities and what you may think is flaws (Your Flaws Are Beautiful) can stop you from doing a lot of things that you want to do but afraid of doing. As he tells you to put the lights on, you're scared of him to see all of you underneath your clothes. In your mind you're afraid that once he see your stomach, your rolls and those thighs of yours, he may get turned off and not want to deal with you anymore. I know how you feel but I've learned that if he really cares about you and love you for you all of you as he should, he will accept you, flaws and all NO MATTER WHAT. 

None of us are perfect, we all have flaws which are beautiful as well but are you going to let your flaws and insecurities come between you and your sex life?  NO! Turn on the lights, let him see every single inch of you and show him what you're working with. Don't let that gut stop you from doing tricks and besides like I always say , under every gut there is some good p*ssy.  It doesn't matter if your stomach is too big or you have rolls on your back and your ass to phat, well let him feel all of you. Let  him make love to every part of your body, let him play with your p*ssy as he kiss on your rolls. 

You will know the difference between a real man that is into you and a man who just want to f*ck you. A man who is after the kitty will not care about you being naked or having the lights on, he is only interested to know what color your Vicky panties are.  Now a real man want to see all of you and as you tell him "you're scared" to be naked, he makes you feel comfortable and confident to not be so afraid. In my relationship in the past, Girl I told him I was scared to take my shirt off, years later my shirt was still on. He never made me feel comfortable or even confident to not be so afraid to show him every inch of me. I think that is where my insecurities stems from and now I have a man who hates when I have clothes on in bed. He doesn't care if I dislike how big my stomach is, "Get on top" is what he says. 

If you're in a relationship with a man who obviously loves you, PUT YOUR CONFIDENCE ON AND GET NAKED!! Go in the bedroom butt naked and let him be your motivation. Please don't let the "Iam Fat" corrupt your mind and not be able to please your man. Let your rolls be great love handles as he is deep inside of you hitting it from the back, matter of fact throw it like a quarterback, let him not be able to handle that big ol booty of yours. 

Don't let anything come in between you having a good nut, don't only satisfy him but satisfy yourself as well. Don't let the little voices in your head which I call "insecurities" ruin things for you. Seriously forget about how big your stomach is, forget about your rolls and give him your all. A man loves a confident women, they really do and if you won't get naked for him and satisfy him, sorry to say someone else will. They might still have sex with you so you won't get suspicious but if he's like my Ex, he won't have sex with you but will be having sex with someone else who is willing to do everything to satisfy him. But I know if my Ex would of taken the time to make me feel comfortable I would of been throwing it back at him. Oh well let him still want that old thing back but I've moved on to something bigger and better (Wink Wink). 

You don't want to feel the pain of a broken heart due to your insecurities, sex is so much better with clothes off anyways. Don't be scared to show your temple to the man you love, LOVE YOUR BODY, LOVE EVERY INCH OF YOURSELF and EMBRACE YOUR CURVES. Confidence is you which means your body as well and I want you to be proud of it. 

He wants you on top, don't think to yourself "Iam too big", let go of your  insecurities, position yourself on top of him and give him the best ride of his life. Let those rolls jiggle, don't let the million thoughts going through your head stop you from enjoying the ride. Position yourself even more, place his hands on your breasts or even on your butt as you go up and down. Tell him how good he is making you feel, moan his name at the top of your lungs, Confidence Is You, Girl show him how confident you really are. Control that penis, don't let it control you, ride it with CONFIDENCE until you climax all over him. I won't lie being on top wasn't happening for me too but I realized I had to dominate the bedroom as well. 

It's ok for you to be thick in the waist and he still want a taste, let your thighs be earmuffs for his ears. Is that kitty clean? Spread your legs open until they can't spread anymore for him to taste you until he can't taste you anymore. Don't let those hips, back gut and gut, stop you from getting some head. Be confident, stop being so afraid that you won't even come close to having an orgasm. Let go of your insecurities and remind yourself that you are beautiful.  

I know it's hard to let go of your insecurities and be confident within yourself but if you have someone who loves you for all of you and want to satisfy you in more way than one with one of them being in the bedroom than let him. Stop being so afraid that he won't care for you once he sees you naked, why would you want to even be with someone who won't accept you for you?  My Confident Doll, You Are Worth It. Let go of your fears, stop worrying about your insecurities and have some fun in the bedroom. We all need a good time from time to time, I wish I can get it all day everyday (I Love Sex, I Think My man thinks Iam a sex addict but oh well I keep him satisfied). Stop being so afraid and bust a nut or two, let your ass wiggle, your rolls jiggle and give him the best time of his life from being on top, getting it from the side to sitting on his chin. BE CONFIDENT, BE FREAKY, CONFIDENCE IS YOU! 

     A Confident Love From Me To You

                     Xoxo Yanika