It was about two weeks ago, I was hanging out with my brother Stephan ( not my biological brother because I have none but he is closest to one) when we were talking about something and he said " The Worst Sadness Is Fake Happiness". As soon as he said it I told him, "Iam writing a blog about that quote". The reason why I felt that it was important for me to write this blog is because I've been there where I would fake my own happiness just to satisfy others or to make myself believe that I was happy. I know people who do the same, they would just pretend just like I did not realizing that they are only hurting themselves even more.
It was a challenge to finally realize that I deserved to be happy but I knew the only person to make me genuinely happy was myself. Why pretend to be happy? Why fake your happiness? You deserve to be happy and not pretend to be. I know things can get tough and at times we don't want to put our business out there for everyone to see but pretending won't solve anything. While you're pretending the issues that you are facing will never go away because you aren't letting yourself face them and make a change.
Being unhappy isn't the way to be and it isn't the way to live your life. If you're in a relationship where you have pretend to be happy, then that isn't the relationship that you are suppose to be in. Why stay with someone that will never make you smile inside and out. I've been there and I wasted YEARS of my life thinking things were going to change, but if I would of moved on from the time I felt that I wasn't happy, I would of saved myself from many broken hearts. If you have a job that you aren't proud to be doing, why stay?! Oh because it pays your bills. I understand but at the same time your happiness matters so while you're at the job that's making you miserable, apply at other jobs and follow your passion until something that you love comes your way.
That's another thing people stay in situations that they aren't happy only wishing it will change. Nothing will change unless you make the efforts for it to change. You can't depend on no one to make that change for you when your happiness besides yourself matters the most. Nothing is easy to accomplish but you are the only one that can make that accomplishment. Don't pretend to be someone else you're not just to see others happy. Don't pretend to be happy knowing that it's only hurting you more.
Your smile is what's important and the most beautiful curve you have, don't let another minute go by feeling miserable about what's going on in your life. I've learned that no pain last forever, it may hurt now but in due time you will be just fine. Don't fake your happiness when happiness is what you deserve in your life.
A Confident Love From Me To You
Xoxo, Yanika
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