We all been there, sex is amazing especially when you're doing it with someone that knows how to work the insides of you. Not every stroke is the best stroke so when you have someone that makes you gasps for air and makes you see stars as he goes up and down inside of you, Girl lonely moments will have you the most frustrated. But why wait for him/her to make you feel good? Ever thought of satisfying yourself? Oh I know, are you scared?
Don't worry, there was a time that I was scared to satisfy myself. I used to think it was actually nasty to pleasure yourself until one day I did it. Iam a very sexual person, I love to be satisfied and I love sex, ( I can honestly have sex everyday, which I don't but I can Lol) but I've always been this way. There were many times, I was beyond frustrated and thinking back, some of my relationships that I was in was mostly because of the pleasures. I knew that there was no future with them but a girl needed to be satisfied not realizing I was only lowering my worth as I let them in just so I can feel good.
Once I started feeling this way, I knew I couldn't deal with guys just for sexual pleasures so for a while, I wasn't doing anything but I have needs so I had to think of a way to make me feel good without lowering my standards for a quick satisfaction. One night I just did it and it was amazing. Don't think of it as being disgusting, remember you're playing with your kitty kat so what's disgusting about it. Put some music on, relax your body and your mind and just start playing with your clit with the tip of your finger. Don't start off doing it fast, like I said relax your mind and your body and be gentle with it. Think about your favorite celebrity if you have to but just relax as you start playing with it, start to go a little faster. The more gentle you are as you start off and you go a little faster, the more it will feel good.
One finger, two finger, whatever it is you desire to make you feel good. Grab your breast if you have to, make it fun. Get some toys to enhance this experience even more. There are nothing wrong with toys, I don't have a big collection of toys but I do have a toy and I whip it out when I need a quick satisfaction. I honestly don't see anything wrong with pleasuring yourself and making yourself feel good. I would rather do what is necessary to make me feel good than to lower my standards and make someone that isn't even worthy of having me make me feel good. Most of us ladies will lay on our back with someone that isn't even good enough to have a stiff of our diamonds but because we are horny and in need, we settle.
Girl, play with your kitty kat until it's so wet that your own fingers is slippering out of it. Yes, I said it. You can't just be confident, you have to be freaky as well. Stop looking for a man to satisfy your EVERY needs, you can be independent in all areas in of YOUR life. I remember one of my cousin said " you don't need a man to make you rich or to make you cum". She was so right, you have to be able to be the independent queen that you are and be able to satisfy yourself after a long day at work.
Don't be afraid to satisfy yourself, don't be afraid to do things that will make you feel good. Don't wait for anyone to give you what you need, if in need close your eyes and play with yourself. There is honestly nothing wrong with playing with yourself and making yourself feel good. Don't settle to get satisfied by someone who doesn't appreciate you when you can satisfy yourself with the own beat of your fingers.
A Confident Love From Me To You
Xoxo, Yanika
Absolute truth! We are taught from a young age that our vagina is nasty and sex is something we don't talk about. However, the vagina and the pleasure derived from it is AMAZING. Thanks for sharing so open and honestly
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