Happiness Over Being Perfect.

We live in a world where everyone makes it seems as if everything is perfect. The reality is nothing is perfect and no one is perfect. We all go through it at one point and we all have flaws within ourselves and that's ok. I had to learn that it was ok to not be ok. For years I just wanted everything to be perfect not realizing that it was impossible. I learn to be content with today and not worry too much about tomorrow. I learn that it's ok to have flaws and still be who I am. When you pretend that everything is ok and that you're perfect in a perfect world, trust me you will realize it's not at one point. 

When it comes to relationships, everyone now a days are looking at other people relationships and saying "relationship goals". How are they your relationship goals, if you don't even know their story better yet who they are. No relationship is perfect, shit I know mines isn't. That's ok with me because there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. We are two people in love that has flaws and are growing together each and every day, we are far from perfect. Maybe perfect for one another but we go through our ups and downs like any other relationship. I wrote about this in a previous blog "No love story is perfect",  you have to want and better your relationship instead of worrying about someone else's relationship. 

You know your worth, you know what you deserve so if this person isn't truly making you happy but you can make it seem as he is for social media, Would you stay with him? A lot of females are doing this just to paint the perfect relationship. Is it worth it? I rather you be lonely and find your own happiness than to pretend that you're happy just so you can make it seem as if you are. Life is too short to waste your time on someone who isn't seeing your worth all for social media. No one is perfect, your favorite celebrities go through it. I swear I always say this Beyoncé and Jay be having their moments, listen to her music. As a writer, majority of the times we write the best when we are in our feelings. I know this, so when they go through it, she writes. 

It's bad enough we live in a world where we are judged from the color of skin to the texture of our hair. Don't sit here and give society more satisfaction all so you can ACT as if everything is perfect. I rather you choose your happiness over being perfect. It's not worth it pretending that everything is perfect when it's not. It's ok, you scared that people would talk or are you scared that you didn't succeed. Doing what is necessary to achieve being happy is succeeding. 

Iam at a point in my life where I just want to grow with my partner and be happy. Iam not with my significant other just so I can paint the perfect picture. Find someone that you can build with and that truly makes you happy and accept you for who you are. If you keep looking for the perfect one, you never will find them because once again in all reality, no one is perfect. People are best to pretend as if they are perfect, everyone have flaws and that's ok. Find someone that treats you like the Queen you are and lives up to your worth. 

       A Confident Love From Me To You

                        Xoxo, Yanika